CHICAGO, ILLINOIS
After more than 20 years of “online play,” male submissive and investment banker William Tittle (FootLuver1953) found that being put in bondage is a very different experience in real life than it is online.
“I had experimented with talking about it. I even role played some things in chat rooms, but when Mistress Electra actually tied me up, I was shocked. I had trouble moving and my hands were practically useless,” Tittle said.
The worst part for Tittle was a common experience that many feel when tied up. “Immediately my nose started to itch. Nobody told me about that. It was upsetting, especially since she wouldn’t scratch it and thought the whole thing was funny.”
“He told me he had 20 years of experience,” Mistress Electra told us. “I didn’t realize it was all behind a keyboard.”
The negotiation process was problematized by Tittle’s belief that “what happens in a chatroom is just as real as doing it in person” and his cavalier attitude, “How different could it really be?”
After only about 10 minutes, Tittle used his “safeword” and described the experience as “tight and confining” and he “didn’t like it at all.”
“It was like I couldn’t move. Way different than what you read about or see in stories. Some things are better left as fantasies.”
Mistress Electra described Tittle as “a nice guy, just not very smart.”
Tittle said he isn’t likely to give it a try again, “Online is much safer and in a way, it is much more real. No one ever gets hurt and if you don’t like what is happening you can just turn off the computer.”
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