Deal Annie,
I have been a submissive for a little more than 3 months and I think I am getting pretty good at it. My issue is that my Dominants knows how to do all these fancy things like flogging, rope bondage, and single tail whips, but he never does them exactly how I like it. I’ve tried talking to him about it, but he just keeps saying he is in charge and he will do things the way he likes. How can I get him to do more of what I want?
Demanding in Detroit
Dear Demanding,
I think it is clear what the problem is. He isn’t a real dominant. Real dominants don’t need to be told what to do or how to do it; they just know. Dominant doesn’t mean “won’t take direction” or “doesn’t follow suggestions.” I’d recommend finding a single dominant male who has had bad luck in relationships. They tend to be more open to pleasing you and will do whatever you demand to keep their attention.
Good luck!
