Dungeon Voices: Who Is Really In Control?

Who is really in control of a BDSM scene or relationship? The top or the bottom?

My Dominant is in control of everything. At least that is what I tell him. You aren’t going to say anything are you?

-Crystal Zint, 24, Air Traffic Controller

I don’t like girls who can’t control themselves. Neither does Mother. You don’t want to upset Mother.

-David Grimm, 58, Seatbelt Inspector

Control is is an illusion. Kierkegaard knew this, probably better than most. Irony is dead. We are all doomed. What was the question?

-Donna Kowalski, 19, Sales Clerk